The Lay Guide: How to Seduce Women More Beautiful Than You Ever DreamedPossible No Matter What You Look Like or How Much You Make

I've been studying up on the PUA genre ever since coming across "The Game" by Neil Strauss and this is by far the best book I've come across to date. Tony Clink actually combines a couple of different methods into one nearly foolproof technique. The Patterns from Ross Jeffries that he shares are worth the price of the book on their own but he also throws some Mystery Method tidbits into the mix to truly help you take your game to the next level. I was truly amazed at the effect that the Discovery Channel language pattern had on a woman at the bar this weekend. Great book all in all and I highly recommend it.

I could see how somebody with absolutely no confidence, game, or experience for women could find this book helpful. It does teach the basics, but there are other books out there that do it a lot better. I'm a good looking guy, and I'm pretty decent at picking up women. I have read books like this in the past, because I feel it is important to always try to better yourself in all areas of life. I also think it is important to recognize seduction techniques and utitilize them to your advantage for not only picking up women but in your career and other aspects of life. The Lay Guide is for people that have absolutely no clue or experience. I just don't like the way the book is written and some of the lines he tells his readers to use on women are so cheesey and corney that I would never consider using them. The best lines are the ones that come off the top of your head and are witty. As you build confidence, you will become more witty. Its a step by step process. The book does have some good points but there are other books that are written so much better! If you need help in this category look up The Game and Rules of the game by Neil Strauss. Also, the art of seduction by Robert Greene gives much better advice and examples.

When I first came across this book, I wasn't going to buy it because, to me, it seemed to be written for men in their 20's who were still trying to get a feel for what their own personal approach was when it came to seducing women. But something told me to buy this book, and I am glad I did.

While I don't whole-heartedly agree with the approach of coming across arrogant and, at times crass, I do feel this book does a good job in reminding the reader what the definition of masculinity is and how to not let rejection or a mean-spirited or spiteful woman make you a weaker man. There really is an art to not being a door mat yet being a gentleman at the same time.

Yes, even middle-aged men who are recently divorced still want to "get laid" and need some tips on how to make an impression with a beautiful woman while competing with all those savvy young men out there. This book was a good read and I respect the author for writing it.

As a side note, I think a book like Player's Handbook Volume 1 - Pickup and Seduction Secrets For Men Who Love Women & Sex (and Want More of Both) is a better fit for men over the age of 35.

For years I hestiated to learn about the art of seduction for fear of coming across fake to women. Guess what happened? I spent years having disappointing dates and failed relationships. A friend recommended this book and I am glad he did.

When you are trying to make a connection (any sort of connection) with a woman, you just can't "go with the flow" and try to anticipate her needs and fulfill them. This book teaches you how to set the tone for the date/relationship and how to ensure you don't get walked all over or end up being confused by mixed singles.

Yes, some of the suggestions may seem aggressive, but I can tell you...THEY WOEK. After following the guidance in this book, I found women to be surprised at first, but then very turned on by the fact that I was taking control of the situation and not playing games nor putting up with games.

If you read one book on seduction, read this one.

I just finished reading this book after reading The Game by Neil Strauss. Whereas the Game reads like a personal memoir, this is more of an instructional guide so the two complement each other very nicely.

I get the point. The Layguide is a very finely tuned technique of mind-control, neuro-linguistic programming, and behavioral science to seduce women. I agree with another reviewer's observation that PUAs including Clink are better at reading women's psychology than most psychologist. Modern women are far more educated and financially independent compared to women in the past, but their psychology remains pretty much the same.

The tone of this book may offend some male readers and many female readers, but I think Clink has the right mindset about this. The point is for males to be in control ALL THE TIME. To most women, you are just one of so many people that passes by in their life and not that important. Men have to treat them the same way. To us, they are just one of so many people that passes by in our lives. There is absolutely no reason for us to spend so much time, money, and energy and cling on to someone that doesn't give a damn about us. So take care of yourselves and your needs before they show some kind of respect. Unless women (especially beautiful ones and in general) are far more empowered and are willing to take equal responsibilities for themselves, they are likely to remain selfish and picky for what they perceive as alpha males. That may be a while from now as many researchers suggest that it may take as long as a century.

Many of the reviewers dismiss the advice and techniques as basic, but I have to disagree. They are definitely not super-advanced, but at least intermediate. There are some good stuff in every chapter so don't forget to try them out. But be selective in what you apply because some techniques don't work for majority of women.

Overall, I enjoyed it very much.