The Dance Of Intimacy

I have three women's support groups and I have used Dr. Lerner's books as guidelines for our discussions - an amazing in depth understanding of the human psyche.
This, as well as all her books, should be required reading by all high school classes. Maybe we could have a different outcome from our future citizens.

Harriet Lerner has great insight into human relationships and gives helpful comments as to how to interact in a positive manner with others.

This book is wonderful because it does not force
its opinion down your throat, and uses examples
of real-life people to show how we as humans can
connect with one another(and how societal expectations
often lead us not to connect with the people we so
despearately need to).

I also love how Dr. Lerner says that it is important
to separate the 'I' from the 'we.' This is one
of the few books that I have absolutely nothing bad to
say about it. Read through this book SLOWLY AND CAREFULLY,
then put it down for a year, and then read it again,
SLOWLY AND CAREFULLY.

Also, for anyone else,this makes a wonderful Christmas
present. Great book to read around the fire when it's
too cold to go outside or even a great book to read
during the summer.

Go, no run to the bookstore and buy as many copies of this
book as you can. My copy is so worn I plan to buy another
one really soon. This book does more justice for dysfunctional
family relationships than therapy, junk food and even Dr. Phil.

Highly recommended, especially for women with complicated
relationships with their parents.

This was basicall new. Excellent price, great shipping time, it was packed safely and very net. I will definitely use this company again.
Book is in very good condition

My therapist recommended this book to me, and that recommendation was worth the value all of my therapy sessions combined. I've learned a lot about myself and my relationships- both in my family and in romantic relationships. I am motivated to make changes in the way I relate to the world, and I owe it (at least 50%) to this book. The best part is, I sent this book to my sister and now she is gaining a better understanding of herself as well and we are trying to help each other. If all I get out of this book is a better relationship with my sister, that will be more than enough. But I know I'm getting more.