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Old 06-Apr-2008, 12:06
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Default you have their shoes

Please help me understand the following in bold.

1. Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes.

Is the above just saying "when you criticize them, you put yourself in their position and are free from your own self-centeredness?"

2. automatic or default emotion.

The above is one section of The Emotional Intelligence Assessment Checklist. What kind of emotion is it?

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