[darewenzj]

Sept. 20th . Tue. 2005
May be sometimes we are getting tired of study or work or something like that.I often feel tired of study just for marks. and now i understand it is the marks that makes me feeling tired of working or studying all the time . i hated it!
Today my grandmother's one word woke me up :"If u are climbing a mountain in the idea of just taking a walk , u will never feel tired, and u will soon get your destination unconsciously....."
That's very very right , isn't it ? i think there r there life ways which can make one sucessful:
1.diffidence, don't like to say many words but they do know how to work ,and they r doing that right away ,they reach their goals without any hesitation ,even it will cost their lives.
2.peaceful, this is the most advanced state .it's hard to reach. and one who owns it will not feel surprised under surpring condition and also will not feel hatable under no-reason condition.
3,extravert, they r talking a lot and can will keep a balance between society and work .and this kind of person is just needed by morden companies ,but unfortunately , this kind of person detract their power in work and few of them will be extreme successul man indeed.
What i want to be is 1 . 2......and i think the relationship between them is that before i get success i own the life way 1,and of coure life way 1 must be the main way of my living attitude ,and after i get success i have the condition to own life way 2 as a accessorial one. and i think that will keep me more optimistic and positive......