English Language Discussion Forums


Go Back   UsingEnglish.com ESL Forum > Learning English > Ask a Teacher

Quick Links
Sites for Teachers



Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 06-Nov-2009, 13:52
Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Country: Russia
Posts: 172
Current Location: Moscow
First Language: Russian
Member Type: Student or Learner
greegorush is on a distinguished road
Default for or/and to

Hello!

Would you like to com to dinner on Friday?

Can I use a preposition for instead of to?

Thanks a lot in advance!
Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links
  #2  
Old 06-Nov-2009, 15:35
bhaisahab's Avatar
VIP Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Country: England
Posts: 6,161
Current Location: France
First Language: English
Member Type: English Teacher
bhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: for or/and to

Quote:
Originally Posted by greegorush View Post
Hello!

Would you like to com to dinner on Friday?

Can I use a preposition for instead of to?

Thanks a lot in advance!
Yes you can.
Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to bhaisahab For This Useful Post:
  #3  
Old 06-Nov-2009, 20:02
Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Country: Russia
Posts: 172
Current Location: Moscow
First Language: Russian
Member Type: Student or Learner
greegorush is on a distinguished road
Default Re: for or/and to

Thanks a lot, bhaisahab!

Am I right that after for comes a noun and after to - a verb in this case?
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 07-Nov-2009, 08:21
bhaisahab's Avatar
VIP Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Country: England
Posts: 6,161
Current Location: France
First Language: English
Member Type: English Teacher
bhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond reputebhaisahab has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: for or/and to

Quote:
Originally Posted by greegorush View Post
Thanks a lot, bhaisahab!

Am I right that after for comes a noun and after to - a verb in this case?
No, "dinner" is a noun in both cases. "If you said "would you like to come to dine...?" "To dine" is a verb.
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to bhaisahab For This Useful Post:
  #5  
Old 07-Nov-2009, 09:13
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Country: UK
Posts: 177
Current Location: Home
First Language: English
Member Type: Academic
Excalibur will become famous soon enough
Default Re: for or/and to

geegorush: do you understand the difference between "come for dinner" and "come to dinner"?
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 07-Nov-2009, 12:47
Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Country: Russia
Posts: 172
Current Location: Moscow
First Language: Russian
Member Type: Student or Learner
greegorush is on a distinguished road
Default Re: for or/and to

Quote:
Originally Posted by Excalibur View Post
geegorush: do you understand the difference between "come for dinner" and "come to dinner"?
No, to be honest.

I passed a topic about for and to
It is explained in this way:

for + noun
to + verb (infinitive)

But to is a preposition in this example. I'd be glad if you explain the difference.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 08-Nov-2009, 10:07
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Country: UK
Posts: 177
Current Location: Home
First Language: English
Member Type: Academic
Excalibur will become famous soon enough
Default Re: for or/and to

Suggesting that someone 'come for dinner' is informal, and implies that, whatever you're cooking for tea, you'll make double; or if a family situation, an extra table setting will be provided, and you just join the family for dinner.
"Look - after work, why not come round for dinner and we can go on to the stag party from there?"

Inviting someone to dinner is more formal. It suggests that the person is to be a special guest, and that the food served will be more special than what one might normally have for an evening meal; probably with wine and a special desert.

John starts a new job, and John's wife suggests that he invite his new boss and his wife to dinner. John and his wife will obviously try to impress, (as opposed to 'taking pot luck'=sharing in whatever has been cooked for the evening meal that night.)
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Excalibur For This Useful Post:
Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT. The time now is 01:24.


vBulletin, Copyright ©2000 - 2009, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.3.0
Copyright © 2002 - 2009 UsingEnglish.com