Dear Friend,
The reason I’m giving this letter for you because someone told me that you were under despair. I know you will pay no attention to this letter but I’m still your best friend and for sure my responsibility to go along with you when you are down. I don’t want to lose you. You are the one that I always share my personal problem with you and bare in your mind that you are not alone. I want to stress how much I believe in you and your capability to overcome difficulties. It's important for to remember an outstanding way to avoid difficulties
The important basic to avoiding despair is don’t live on the undesirable. If you always focus on negative things this will eventually penetrate through into your state of mind. Pessimism can be unhappy people, sad situations and our own bad thoughts. If you want to encourage happiness, you should pursue to escape miserable situations and gloomy people.
Deep in my heart said that you are perfect to me. Each person has their own capability but most of them never used it cleverly and definitely didn’t know their own capability at all. It is foolish to believe that people in this world are not perfect at all. I know you were stress because people always called you fat girl; fishy smell, dumb and even your family didn’t care at you. You must bring up your spirit because that whole staff just makes yourself down and start think that you are suppose not in this world. You must believe yourself and your own capability. People always see a result, but not your development. Human being says that. Think that sentence and try to understand. I hope you will understand what I was writing to you Maria. If they said that you are dumb, irresponsible, overweight, and obnoxious and so on, just put aside away and try to make yourself better.
Think about your much potential. Remember that you are intellectual, delicate, and worried about important issues. If you haven't always been these things, it is good that you are conscious of what you can strengthen. However, if you are unhappy, you certainly can't know your full value.
In the book Letters from a Stoic Seneca says “Keep in mid the remark I read in Pomponius: ‘Some people have withdrawn to darkness so deep that they think anything in light is dim’” (Seneca, 169). You don’t always have to line in the dark alone. You have friends and family that will do whatever they can to help you. All you have to do is accept that help. You don’t have to go through this alone. After what you've been through, it's reasonable that you feel hopeless at times, but don't give up.
Have you thought about me, why I’m still here as your best friend? Because you are really the best friend ever. Even your physical look was not in fully pretty for you, but for me, you have an enjoyable and beautiful heart. It is not easy to find a truthfully honest in any relationship as you. I don’t want to lose you. I miss your smile and our hot conversation story was shared together. I miss that part and I don’t want it will be a history. I was here to write a letter for understand you are not alone and I will support you in any matter. Have faith in me. I just want you back to normal and be yourself!
In my FYS class, we watched the movie The Social Network. In the movie, Mark was a miserable person and he toned people out. He didn’t listen to anyone and he taught he was better than everyone was. He eventually lost everyone including his best friend. I’m telling you this because I don’t want the same thing to happen to you. I want you to be happy and have your friends by your side.
Finally yet importantly, I hope you will understand you still have friends, your family and me. Your family loves you so much and never feels you are lonely. What are you doing right now just make you more in depress. My advice for you, you must lift up your own spirit and never let all the people talk to you again. Never be afraid to seek help, even though you may feel lost and alone, there are people who can help. Doctors, Psychologists, Churches, Books, there are a countless of help out there. Use it, Call out and ask for help. Take the steps necessary to find health and wholeness. I surely believe that you can do it!
Sincerely,
B