
Originally Posted by
flowersa
***** NOT A TEACHER *****
(1) I think that in this sentence, the word "small" means "petty."
(2) And what does "petty" mean?
(3) Well, it means to make something important out of something not important.
(4) Let's say that Mona works in your office. You and Mona are not friends. Neither
are you enemies. Let's say that one day when you passed her in the hall, you said
"Good morning," but she did not reply. Now let's say that someone comes to you and
says, "Mona, the woman who works on the third floor, is having her 80th birthday.
Would you like to sign this birthday card that we are going to give her?" You answer,
"No." We would say that you are acting small or petty. After all, Mona did not hurt
you. Yes, she did not reply to your "Good morning." But she is going to be 80 years
old. You could have been "big" and signed the card.
(5) Well, some people say that politics sometimes is so "small." Instead of discussing
important matters, the media discuss "unimportant" matters. We just had an
example last night. As you know, four men are fighting to represent the Republican
Party in our presidential elections come November. Well, at a debate last night, one of the
reporters asked Mr. about something negative that his former wife of 20 years ago
said about him. Mr. X said something like "You should be ashamed of asking me a
question like that!" The audience not only applauded but they also stood up to show
their support for Mr. X. The economy is in horrible condition. People do not care about
what an ex-wife says. They want to know how to get more jobs created.
(5) Being "big" is the opposite of being "small" in politics (and in life). We also
call this being a "good sport." If you lose an election, you congratulate the winner.
That's being big. If your sports team loses, you congratulate the winning team on
its victory. That's being a good sport. (According to the newspapers, many politicians
and sports fans are not good sports. Often the loser will turn to violence!)