Correct English

[lady c]

I am having a debate with someone at the moment ..this person has presented themselves as someone who can in no way tolerate bad spelling and or grammar yet at the same time i feel they are casting stones while living in glass houses. Could you please tell me if the below are correct.

Sample number 1
I find it hard to make excuses for adults concerning spelling and even grammar! Whenever I have gotten emails with spelling mistakes or poor grammar, it takes away from the impact of the message in my opinion!
It is a BIG TURNOFF. Plain and simple.

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GOTTEN??...is that a word?

Sample number 2
And before anyone says anything about the spelling of my anonymous handle? It is spelled this way for a certain reason.

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It is SPELLED this way for a ceertain reason??? SPELLED???

[Tdol]

gotten- used in American English
spelled- alternative form of 'spelt'- some verbs can use -t or -ed