Re: how do I look to you
The answer to that would be something like "You look very nice" or "You look very smart. I like your new trousers". It doesn't mean the same as "How do I seem to you?" The likely answer to that would be something like "You seem very happy" or "You seem very intelligent".
"How do I look?" is one of those questions which perhaps doesn't mean what it sounds like it means. It means "Give me your opinion on my appearance". When a woman asks her boyfriend/husband "How do I look?", he needs to be very careful with his answer!
Remember - correct capitalisation, punctuation and spacing make posts much easier to read.