Let's take these sentences for example and you can find out what prep you should use
1.We were
deeply disappointed
at/about the result.
2.His parents were
bitterly disappointed
in/with him.
3.[+ (
that)] She was disappointed
(that) they hadn't phoned.
4.[+
to infinitive] He was disappointed
to find they'd already gone.
5.If you're expecting Dad to let you borrow his car, you're going to be
sorely disappointed.
The prep is denpendent on the adj "disappointed"
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