How to use phrases?

[winston]

Dear Sir/Madam,
Please read the following sentences. Here I have written each sentence in two ways. I am not able make sure whether it is right or wrong. Also I want to know “Could we make these sentences in two ways to get different meanings?” Ask me, if you are not able to grasp what I ask. Please see the highlighted area.

• As he was accused, every one of his family let him down.
• As he was accused, every one of his family let down him.
• She always put me down.
• She always put down me.
• Her parents brought her up in good manner.
• Her parents brought up her in good manner.
• He added some jokes to spice up the story.
• He added some jokes to spice the story up.
• It doesn’t matter whether I will get success or not, but I will never gave up my efforts.
• It doesn’t matter whether I will get success or not, but I will never gave my efforts up.

Thanks
winston

[curmudgeon]

Dear Sir/Madam,
Please read the following sentences. Here I have written each sentence in two ways. I am not able make sure whether it is right or wrong. Also I want to know “Could we make these sentences in two ways to get different meanings?” Ask me, if you are not able to grasp what I ask. Please see the highlighted area.

• As he was accused, every one of his family let him down.
• As he was accused, every one of his family let down him.
• Since he has been accused, all of his family have let him down
• She always put me down.
• She always put down me.
• She always puts me down
• Her parents brought her up in good manner.
• Her parents brought up her in good manner.
• He added some jokes to spice up the story.
• He added some jokes to spice the story up.
• Both are OK
• It doesn’t matter whether I will get success or not, but I will never gave up my efforts.
• It doesn’t matter whether I will get success or not, but I will never gave my efforts up.
• It doesn't matter whether I am succesful or not, I will never give up trying

Thanks
winston

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[winston]

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Then both ways giving the same meaning?

[curmudgeon]

Only on the 'joke' phrase. The rest are all wrong except the one I ticked.

[winston]

Only on the 'joke' phrase. The rest are all wrong except the one I ticked.

I just understood.Thank you.