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[valtango]

Here I am with a problem. Which is correct:-
Would you mind if I asked you a question?
Would you mind if I ask you a question?

[Tdol]

I'd use the first because the normal pattern is to use the past tense would 'would' in such sentences. However, I wouldn't go so far as to say the second is impossible, but I'd play safe.

[valtango]

Originally Posted by tdol

I'd use the first because the normal pattern is to use the past tense would 'would' in such sentences. However, I wouldn't go so far as to say the second is impossible, but I'd play safe.

Thanks so much, it's what I thought too, but needed verification.

[MikeNewYork]

Originally Posted by valtango

Here I am with a problem. Which is correct:-
Would you mind if I asked you a question?
Would you mind if I ask you a question?

I agree with TDOL. In form, this is a second conditional. These conditionals use the past tense in the "if" clause, and the present conditional "would" + "base verb form" in the result clause. The second variation would be a mixed conditional, which can be grammatical, but is less common. :wink:

[henry]

Originally Posted by valtango

Here I am with a problem. Which is correct:-
Would you mind if I asked you a question?
Would you mind if I ask you a question?

To avoid the doubt, you can also say " Would you mind me/my asking you a question?"

:wink:

[MikeNewYork]

Originally Posted by henry

To avoid the doubt, you can also say " Would you mind me/my asking you a question?"

:wink:

Very good, Henry! :wink:

[henry]

Originally Posted by MikeNewYork

Very good, Henry! :wink:

Thank you! :D

[MikeNewYork]

Originally Posted by henry

Thank you! :D

:D

[valtango]

Thanyou all for your help.

[MikeNewYork]

Originally Posted by valtango

Thanyou all for your help.

You're very welcome. :wink: