How lovely.We have a song for children
"Baby baby, don't you cry
Tears are pearls
If you cry too much
You'll marry an uneducated guy."
I didn't have tears when I heard this as a teen-age girl. But a few years ago, I went to see a stage performance. When they sang the song, I wore a bunch of calcium deposit on my face.

My mother has a big one, she forced me to wear it on my best friend's wedding. I personally don't appreciate it much because I don't like its color. Black is the worst in life. Wondering why those super stars wear black suits from head all the way to toes. The only thing I can think of is black makes you look thinner. Color Psychology wonders! hehe.