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    Default WOuld you mind?

    Would you mind opening the window?

    * What do you mean to answer "YES" in this question?

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    Default Re: WOuld you mind?

    If you do mind - that is, you don't want the person to do/say something- then saying "yes" is the correct response. Because it is an odd construction, people will often say something like " Yes I do, actually" to make their reply clear .

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    Default Re: WOuld you mind?

    It is a tricky one. It usually leave non-natives speakers with the feeling of confusion.
    A: Would you mind...?
    B: Yes. I would mind=I do not want what you suggest.
    Hovewer,
    A: Would you mind....?
    B: Sure.
    could mean, yeah, go on, I would not mind/I am fine with this or:
    sure, I would mind!
    It is not about what we say but how we say it (this sure).
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    Default Re: WOuld you mind?

    Yes, Banderas! Sometimes, we are confused with this expression thinking that the "YES" would mean a positive response but actually otherwise.

    So, it's okay to say "I don't mind"?

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    Default Re: WOuld you mind?

    Quote Originally Posted by blouen View Post
    Yes, Banderas! Sometimes, we are confused with this expression thinking that the "YES" would mean a positive response but actually otherwise.

    So, it's okay to say "I don't mind"?
    Only if the question is: "do you mind".
    If someone askes "would you mind", say "No, I wouldn't meaning you are ok with what the person suggests.

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    Default Re: WOuld you mind?

    Quote Originally Posted by blouen View Post
    Would you mind opening the window?

    Not at all [if you don't mind]

    Yes, I would [if you do mind]

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    Default Re: WOuld you mind?

    Thanks guys! Got it!

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