Hi! The quoted paragraph are an excerpt from a columnist's article in Washington Post. I come across some questions. Would you please help me out? Thanks.I have sometimes wondered what would happen if the good reverends of this Earth got their way and lust -- evil, sinful lust -- vanished overnight. I fear motels and hotels would close, florists and jewelers would seek Chapter XI, restaurants would shutter, celebrity magazines would fold, divorce lawyers would have to defend the innocent, and, in general, the economy would crash. Something like this is going to happen now that Hillary Clinton is out of the presidential race.
Q1: Why does the columnist say "motels and hotels would close" and "restaurants" would shutter? Aren't they lust?
Q2: What does " got their way" mean?
Q3: What does " Chapter XI" refer to? Why would florists and jewelers seek it?
Q4: Are celebrity mags lust too?
Hi daffodils,
First, lust=exteme sexual desire, right? Secondly, the author is being a bit comical. Don't take anything literallyl
Q1: Why does the columnist say "motels and hotels would close" and "restaurants" would shutter? Aren't they lust?
People who want to have sex will often use hotels or motels for the sexual interludes - especially if they are married to other people. If you want someone to have sex with you, you may have to take that person out to dinner first, to "wine and dine" her, before she will allow you have fulfill your lustful desires.
No lust=no desire for sex=no need for motel rooms=no need for wining and dinning=no need for restaurants.
Q2: What does " got their way" mean?
If you get the thing you are seeking/hoping for, you get your way. I wanted Mexican, Jim wanted Chinese - I got my way - we had tacos for dinner.
Q3: What does " Chapter XI" refer to? Why would florists and jewelers seek it?
It's a type of bankruptcy protection. If no one is buying flowers or jewels (to seduce the women with whom they want to have sex), they would go out of business. Bankruptcy helps protect them financially.
Q4: Are celebrity mags lust too?
A good portion of the magazines are about who is dating whom. If no one wanted to have sex, how interesting would the magazines be? If no one wanted to look all sexy, would their dressses be hot and sexy and worth showing on the magazines?
Hi Barb_D,
Thank you very much for your answers. I have guessed what the columnist alluded to about "motels and hotels". But I remembered a Canadian friend once told me that he lodged in a motel on his way home so I was not sure.
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Hi Bobk,
Thank you for your illustrations. You are helpful.![]()
A complementary approach, Bob!
Barb_D & BobK:
I wonder whether my questons and your answers in the thread would be kind of sensitive to you Westerners generally?
After I posted this thread, I got a piece of private message (PM) from an American forum member. S/he said my subject of the thread would be a little sensitive so s/he decided to answer my questions via PM. And in the PM, s/he felt very embarrassed to answer my questions .
I understood the US is a multi-cultured country with immigrants from all over the world. An opinion of a person's might be individual. So I want to know what the mainstreams of you countries would think about it.
And recently, I have been watching American soap opera -Desperate Housewives; yesterday, I watched British sitcom-Couplings. I am very confused by the relationship of sex in the TV programmes both in the US and the UK. I wonder whether it is appropriate to post them out and ask? Could you please suggest?
Many thanks!
PS:
Couplings introduction from Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coupling_(UK_TV_series)
Desperate Housewives introduction from Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desperate_Housewives
Last edited by thedaffodils; 16-Sep-2008 at 03:28.
Some people are more sensitive than others
As to the way in which sex is presented in TV series, I would suggest that British comedy series tend to be less subtle about it that American.
However, the two series you cite are very different. "Desperate Housewives" is set in middle-class, middle-aged, affluent suburbia, and has many subtle themes running through it; "Couplings" is set in a central urban [London] location with a central theme of young unmarried people getting together.