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Originally Posted by tedtmc I definitely wouldn't say that to a friend who is recovering in the hospital. 
Keep up the good work - what good work?
I'd say things like, 'get well soon' or 'wish you a speedy recovery' or 'I'm glad you're well on your way to recovery'. |
I think it's difficult to find real words of encouragement.
"Get well soon" or "I wish you a speedy recovery" are both fine, but they really just state "I hope chance is on your side" or "I'm praying that everything will be okay".
I think in a case such as this one, words of support should also attempt to reinforce the person's resolve to get better and lift their spirits - in addition to offering the usual "best wishes".
A positive frame of mind is, of course, very important when recovering from an illness/surgery - and sometimes attaining (and maintaining) that frame of mind can be a form of work.
I think what I'm really trying to say is that people shouldn't limit their use of language to tiresome gift-card cliches.
Sometimes you have to break the rules of "the norm" to get your feelings or intentions across.