An English teacher writes,
There are some odd differences that you will run across. For instance,
little carries an emotional factor that
small usually does not:
a strange little creature, a little troublemaker. Also,
little tends to be more a premodifier:
You made some small/little mistakes vs
your mistakes were small / (?) little.
Where they are otherwise synonymous in meaning and function the same grammatically, I personally think it's more a matter of historical collocation than anything else:
little black book
little brother
Little Women
small scale production
a little bit
small town
a small amount
small business
small quantities
small talk
a small world
Swan suggests that while
small refers only to size (a small brandy),
little also expresses some kind of emotion (
a little [troublemaker]). Also that in
BrE,
little is unusual in predicative position while it is normal in
AmE.
There are of course many situations in which only one will do, semantically and grammatically:
little doubt
little one can do
small-arm sales
a little harder
etc.
Sources Small vs little Little vs. small A linguist writes,
.... when it comes to actual usage, things get fuzzier. We're comfortable using the phrase, "He was a man of little patience" in formal writing. In that instance and others like it, "little" has a quantitative meaning. "Land of Little Rain," is very different from "And the small rain did fall." ... , we often mix big/large, little/small in the same register: we say "a big-time gambler," and "a small-time gambler," but never "a little-time gambler."
I can only echo your lament: how does anyone who's not a native speaker
ever learn the nuances of a language not his or her own. Alas!
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