distractive or distracting

[Rashida]

I feel his frustrations and dissatisfaction can be communicated a little less distractive.

[David L.]

I feel his frustrations and dissatisfactions could be communicated in a little less of a distractive nature.

I feel his frustration and dissatisfaction could be communicated in a little less distracting way.

You asked the question.
Knowledge may be Power, but Understanding is Paramount.
So - what's the difference here?