[quote=hunny;494466]Do u agree or disagree with the following statement?
Most experiences in our life that seem difficult at the time but become valuable lessons for the future. Use specific reasons and examples to support ur answer.
Many ups and downs come into our life. The difficult experiences are not easy to overcome and are often difficult to face. Afterwards, when we have a chance to reflect on the good and the bad, we can learn valuable lessons, however.
In this journey called life, you have both some good and some bad moments. Everyone has troubles. No one is free from worry completely.
How we manage the troubles is the important part. Sometimes our thoughts that something looks very hard, makes it more difficult to manage the situation. For instance, a man is going to an interview for the first time. He is very nervous, but afterward, when he is finished, he finds that there are some things he did well and some he did badly. He learns what to do for the next time and what mistakes to avoid.
Some bad life experiences are so disheartening that they discourage our spirit. For instance, if a man trusts a secret to a friend and that friend betrays him by telling it to everyone, his career or future can be spoiled.
Imagine what he would feel the next time he needs to trust someone. It would be difficult for him to believe or trust anyone. That would be a very difficult lesson to learn and may cause him to be overly mistrustful.
A betrayal can have a positive aspect however. One can learn to be more careful and discerning the next time.
In conclusion, I believe that experience is necessary to learn in this life. Without experience, we cannot learn useful lessons and become smarter, wiser, stronger and more discerning.