I have some concerns:
1. In the instructions, you are asked to 'look at the highlighted verb phrases.' From your post, I cannot tell which are the highlighted parts of the sentences.
2. You say, 'Iím doing an I-to-I course so of course no help there.' First, I don't know what 'an I-to-I course' is and, second, why is there no help? Are there no lessons? practice materials? instructor contact?