***** A NON-TEACHER's COMMENT *****
(1) First, I really like that phrase "We are [not] looking to procreate
right there on the spot." The English DO have a way with language.
Since they "invented" the English language, I guess that we should
not be astonished by how well they use it!!! (I think that many of
my fellow countrymen would express that idea more crudely.)
(2) I think that the two key words are "chivalry" & "wolf whistle."
(a) My dictionary tells me that "chivalry" comes from a Latin word
meaning "horseman." As you know, hundreds of years ago in Europe
there were knights (soldiers on horses) who were supposedly very
honorable men --especially to the ladies.
(b) "wolf whistle" refers to a loud whistle that a man might make when
a beautiful lady passes by.
(3) I think that the point of your paragraph is
When you see a beautiful woman, do not whistle. That whistle could
be interpreted by the lady as meaning that you want to -- well, you
know!!! Instead, be chivalrous -- open the door for her, compliment
her on her new hairdo or dress, etc. Show her that you respect her
as a person and that you really admire the time and care that she
spent on looking good.
(4) I do not know what the situation is in your country, but here in the
United States, men are now super cautious. If a man compliments a
woman on her new shoes, for example, she might feel that he is getting
too personal. She might then report him, thus endangering his job. So
many American men nowadays play it safe -- they keep their mouths
REMINDER: These are only my opinions.
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