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    Hello and Merry Christmas,

    Is it possible to use the word 'lighten' in this situation?

    'Every time when my parents quarrel with each other, I'm at my wits' end, because I don't know what I need and can do to lighten the situation.'

    Thank you in advance.
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    Default Re: lighten the situation

    Yes, you can.

    Also: defuse, alleviate, calm, relieve.

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    Default Re: lighten the situation



    Quote Originally Posted by vectra View Post
    'Every time when my parents quarrel with each other, I'm at my wits' end, because I don't know what I need and can do to lighten the situation.'

    Can I drop when over here? Is it obligatory?


    Thank you,



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    Default Re: lighten the situation

    Yup - in fact it's better. If you must use a subordinating conjunction, use 'that'. We already know you're talking about time - so saying 'when' is pleonastic (look it up!)

    b

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