Pass implies that you just need someone to hand the object to you; you can not reach it so you need someone to help pass it along to you. For example, if you are sitting at a large dinner table with 10 people and you need the salt which is located at the other end of the table, you would say: "Please pass me the salt." This is a polite format.
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