The last two are examples of the difference between the (normally active in meaning) present participle (-ing form) and the (normally passive, except in perfect tense/aspect usage) past participle (third form).
Originally Posted by dtommy79
A: How was the show?
B: It was disappointing. Active - It disappointed me.
C: I was disappointed. Passive - I was disappointed by it.
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