I really think the South Korean government should award me a pension for dealing with this crap. Why, oh why, do they insist on mining the very bottom of the AmE usage tank?
You will live to be a million before you hear =>2.
Americans who really wanted to use =>1 would almost always say who rather than whom. But then, hardly any of them would ever choose to say it. What's grammatically wrong with "Trinity fell in love with Mr Anderson, a computer programmer"? I understand the dissonance between Mr and fell in love with, which is just further evidence of how ridonculous this question is.