Re: gagging order
I sort of understand what he means. Rather than hating the violence which might ensue, he hates the fact that he feels unable to speak his mind for fear of reprisals, whatever those reprisals might be.
In the same way, a whistleblower might not hate the idea of being unemployed or having to find a new job but he probably hates the fact that he can't bring people's attention to deficiencies in his organisation without the threat of being fired. (Note that not all whistleblowers are male.)
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