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From what I know, you can't use stative verbs in the progressive tense. If you can only say :I love you, since love is a stative verb, how come Mcdonalds say in their ads: "I'm loving it"? I know it's a silly question, but a student of mine asked me that while I was explaining to her about stative verbs, and I didn't have an answer for her, which was very embarrassing..
Thank you for your help.
It's not a silly question, it's an excellent question. You may have read this in a grammar book; if so, then the grammar book didn't go far enough.
Try to stay away from absolutes in language teaching. Use normally, generally, because there are always exceptions.
"I love her" is a state condition versus "I'm loving her" which holds one meaning that the two are involved in intimate actions of some sort.
Even though "I smell something burning" isn't really a state, we normally/usually/generally deal with it as a state. That doesn't mean that it's impossible to say, "I'm smelling something burning".
Here are two examples from a Google search.
Golden Brown Food » Blog Archive » The Kitchen Idiot - Move No 2
A while in and I’m smelling something burning. My first instinct is to turn off the toaster/convection oven, thinking perhaps the power cord was caught ...
All of a sudden I'm smelling something burning and look to see that the temperature gauge for the transmission isn't showing a temperature. Uh-oh. ...
‘Can’t’ is strong word. While most stative verbs can't or shouldn’t be used with the continuous, ‘love’, ‘feel’ & ‘like’ are examples of exception. ‘I’m loving it’ is similar to ‘I’m enjoying it’. Both express an action. ‘Loving’ here expresses active enjoyment, not a permanent attitude or state. I think it’s fine in Mcdonald's ad example you cited.