I don't know what the question is.
In any case, you can use "ever" in ordinary speech. You might use it for emphasis. Examples:
You never ever do it right.In poetry "ever and ever" or "ever and always" is a very long time.
It's not ever been done that way before.
Of course, you can use it in questions. Examples:
When did you ever do that?
Does she ever stop talking?