[Grammar] This coming from a/the guy who

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Hello.
I've heard sentences such as:
This coming from a guy who learned how to tie his shoes at 14?
This coming from a guy who decorates his living room with a portrait of dogs playing poker?
This coming from the guy who has the Josh Groban Christmas album.
This coming from the woman who spent the entire car ride over here telling me I had the worst possible haircut for my face?


I don't get which article is correct to use. Or is it that with sentences of this sort that begin like "this coming from...." it's acceptable to use whichever article you want?

Looking forward to your replies.
 

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Either article is fine.
 

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Either article is fine.

Thank you for replying. By the way, they were all said directly to the person. So in this case are they interchangeable?
 

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Sorry, just one more thing.
What if I'm not saying it to a person directly, but to someone else about that person, in this case am I free to use either one of the articles as well?
 

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Just out of curiosity, why is the indefinite article even used in sentences like that? Because, I think logically the only option has to be "the". I mean, we're clearly addressing what we say specifically to a particular person. Isn't that right?
 

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There's a logical reason to choose the indefinite article, too. When you say And this, coming from a guy who has everything, you're including the person you're talking about in a larger group of fortunate people. The version with the definite article is at least potentially less inclusive.
 

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Just out of curiosity, why is the indefinite article even used in sentences like that? Because, I think logically the only option has to be "the". I mean, we're clearly addressing what we say specifically to a particular person. Isn't that right?

Yes, absolutely, but it works the other way, too. He is a guy who learned to tie his shoes at fourteen.

The only difference is that "a" assumes that there are other guys who also learned to tie their shoes at fourteen.

So it makes sense either way, right?
 
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