The twenty qualities I would like in my soulmate:
What do "abundant" and "self-secure" mean in this context?
Abundant - that he's rich?
It MAY mean that he has a mentality of abundance, that is, that he is giving, generous, anxious to please. But "abundant" also could mean that he is large in size.
Self-secure - that he knows how to protect himself?
Means self confident, assured, sure of himself
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