I think I have a good idea of the meaning of this elaborate sentence.
These mothers wore expensive designers clothes and had their hair styled by expensive hairdressers. The fact that they paid so much attention to their looks showed even though they tried to keep it simple- the had a polished look -there was something about their looks- something elegant, classy- that showed the attention they paid to it.
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