handsome and beautiful

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Nightmare85

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Hello,
I learned this rule in these forums:
When you talk about a woman you usually use beautiful.
She is a beautiful woman.

When you talk about a man you usually use handsome.
He is a handsome man.

Okay, but what would you say here:
(Someone asks a boy this question)
Is your mother as beautiful/handsome as you?

What would you use?
I think it's a tricky situation :)

Cheers!
 

Idun

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Well, I wouldn´t ask :roll: BUT the best way (after not asking) would be to use "good looking".


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rlfwood

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I would be inclined to use a more generic word, like "attractive". If that's not allowed, then "handsome" can be used with women (although it's not common, and sounds somewhat archaic), whereas you would not use "beautiful" with a male.
 

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I'd take a slightly different position on handsome/beautiful- if a man's attractiveness has something feminine about it, then 'beautiful' could be used, and 'handsome' for a woman with something masculine about her.
 

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Hello,
I learned this rule in these forums:
When you talk about a woman you usually use beautiful.
She is a beautiful woman.

When you talk about a man you usually use handsome.
He is a handsome man.

Okay, but what would you say here:
(Someone asks a boy this question)
Is your mother as beautiful/handsome as you?

What would you use?
I think it's a tricky situation :)

Cheers!
***NOT A TEACHER***You probably already know this, but if you don't: Here in the United States, we talk about "the beautiful people." It refers to people of both genders who live lives of privilege.
 

rlfwood

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I'd take a slightly different position on handsome/beautiful- if a man's attractiveness has something feminine about it, then 'beautiful' could be used, and 'handsome' for a woman with something masculine about her.

In my experience, in the first instance (referring to an effeminate male), "pretty" would be more likely than "beautiful".

In the second instance ("handsome woman"), I disagree. Note, for example, this from the Urban Dictionary:

Handsome Woman

A woman with the kind of refined beauty and attractiveness that requires poise, dignity, and strength of mind and character, things that often come with age; not merely sex-appeal. Usually applied to a woman who is also very well-groomed and from an upper class background.

This phrase is very dated and rarely used in today's English. Those who don't understand the term could almost be insulted by the word "handsome" being applied to a woman, mistakenly thinking you're saying she is masculine.

"Though she had lost long ago her virginal loveliness, she had ripened into a handsome and fruitful looking woman." - Ellen Glasgow

"What a handsome woman she has become; she carries herself so well".
 
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