ElisabethS
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In what situation is it correct to answer a question started with "Would you mind if...?" with "Yes, certainly".
In what situation is it correct to answer a question started with "Would you mind if...?" with "Yes, certainly".
If I were to ask someone "would you mind if................ and it was answered "Yes, certainly" I would assume that they would mind and did not want me to do it. I would expect the answer to be something like "No, I don't mind at all, go ahead"
Generally you can respond to a polite request either with "Yes, certainly" or "No, not at all." Logically only the latter makes sense, but no one would notice.
"Would you mind if I cleared your plate from the table?" "No, not at all."
-- This would make more sense.
But if you were smiling agreeably and clearly giving your assent, you could get away with "Yes, certainly." (There might be situations where your answer would cause confusion, however.)
[Or, as my Swedish grandmother would have said, "Tack ska du ha."]
Which is better and why:
Do you mind..... ?
or
Would you mind.... ?