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    dear in this sentence
    The most common questions I get from young people are,
    "Do Muslims date?" and "If they don't date, how do
    they decide whom to marry?"

    why they don't use who what is the difference between them

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    Re: difficult sentence

    Quote Originally Posted by adel87 View Post
    dear in this sentence
    The most common questions I get from young people are,
    "Do Muslims date?" and "If they don't date, how do
    they decide whom to marry?"

    why they don't use who what is the difference between them

    thank you
    I'm surprised that you hear that construction more often than "...who to marry?" Most people I know would use "who", but then most people I know wouldn't use "whom" in any sentence!

    A quick rule is if you can substitute "he/she" then use "who". If you would need "him/her" then use "whom". Although a straight substitution isn't possible in your original sentence, look at it like this:

    How did you decide to marry him?
    If you don't date a man, how will you decide whether or not to marry him?

    You wouldn't use "he" in either of those sentences instead of "him", therefore "whom" is appropriate, not "who".

    I may be wrong but I think the following may also be relevant:

    To whom will you be married?

    "Who" becomes "whom" after a preposition.

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    Re: difficult sentence

    Who is used as the subject of a sentence or clause, and whom is always used as an object. However, this rule is now considered "old-fashioned", and who can replace whom. Still, if you use whom, it would be OK.

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