keannu
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- Korean
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- South Korea
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- South Korea
In English, I heard when you go to a place away from both the speaker and the listener, you say "I will go", while when you go to the listener's place, you say "I will come to the place", but like in these 2 examples I roughly made up through my experience, there seems to be no strict rules for it, can you tell me what the standard for come and go is?
ex1)A: Will you come to my birthday party tomorrow?
B : Sure, I'll be glad to. I'll come to the party.
ex2)A: Me and my friends are going to Girls Generation's concert tomorrow, Will you also come?
B:Wow, they're my favorite group, I'll definitely go(come),too.
If there's a certain fixed rule, I seemed to have heard "come" is used to respect the listener(the other party)'s position, but the following is quite the opposite.
A: Don't you smoke?
B: Korean : Yes, I don't smoke. (in case I don't smoke)
English : No, I don't smoke. (in case I don't smoke)
The reason why Koreans say "Yes" is it's like saying "Yes, I accept your supposition is true" answering from the other party's position, while "No" in English is answering from the speaker(me)'s position. This is just a cultural difference without any superiority.
ex1)A: Will you come to my birthday party tomorrow?
B : Sure, I'll be glad to. I'll come to the party.
ex2)A: Me and my friends are going to Girls Generation's concert tomorrow, Will you also come?
B:Wow, they're my favorite group, I'll definitely go(come),too.
If there's a certain fixed rule, I seemed to have heard "come" is used to respect the listener(the other party)'s position, but the following is quite the opposite.
A: Don't you smoke?
B: Korean : Yes, I don't smoke. (in case I don't smoke)
English : No, I don't smoke. (in case I don't smoke)
The reason why Koreans say "Yes" is it's like saying "Yes, I accept your supposition is true" answering from the other party's position, while "No" in English is answering from the speaker(me)'s position. This is just a cultural difference without any superiority.
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