of or off?

[goingtocalifornia]

I got a grief of her because I did not show up
Or
I got a load of grief off her because I did not show up?

[mxreader]

Hey there,

Only the second sentence is good. The logic is like this:

I got something off her
that something is a load of grief

[philo2009]

You ought to be aware that neither of these expressions is standard English....

[BobSmith]

[AmE - not a teacher]

I got a load of grief from her because I did not show up.

[Tdol]

Do you use She gave me a lot/loads of grief... in AmE?

[BobSmith]

Do you use She gave me a lot/loads of grief... in AmE?

Most definitely, with or without the lots/loads.

She gave me grief for showing up so late.

[mxreader]

Here are some examples off the internet:

I got a load of grief off Esther because I was ten minutes late.
Talking to someone, whether it’s a dear friend, family member or a professional will help take a load of grief off of you.
...lift my load of grief off from my...
I’m driving a bus for £30 a week here and getting a load of grief off some people at the end of the day.
In to see the GP soon to check me over then transition done and dusted and a load of grief off my mind.
I booked another Hotel as I was getting a load of grief off the hotel,...

[5jj]

You can find millions of examples of non-standard English on the internet.

[sumon.]

Hello 5jj, How about this website -elllo | English Listening Online.
Does this website use standard English?

[bhaisahab]

Hello 5jj, How about this website -elllo | English Listening Online.
Does this website use standard English?

It uses English spoken with different accents from various parts of the world.