I think "I don't believe you" would apply about 95% of the time. (Wild guess on the number.)
To me, "I can't believe you" means "I don't think you are telling me a deliberate lie, and maybe I would like to believe you, but it's impossible for me to accept this as the truth." (It would be the same if you didn't want it to be the truth.)

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