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Can the opbject pronoun be placed indifferently, as in the sentences below?
He talked to my friend and me. He talked to me and my friend.
I don't think "indifferently" is the word you meant.
I'm not a teacher, but I write for a living. Please don't ask me about 2nd conditionals, but I'm a safe bet for what reads well in (American) English.