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Could you not smoke?
Could you not shout?

Can you not smoke?
Can you not shout?


Are these correct, please?

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Yes, they are correct.

You will also hear "Would you not X" as well. That version is probably a little more common, but there is nothing wrong with your choices either.

Also, these are usually accompanied by 'please' to make them more polite. The word 'please' has some flexibility where it appears, as I've indicated below.

Could you please not smoke?
Could you not smoke, please?
Please, could you not smoke?
 

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Exactly! "Please" was missing and it sounded wrong to me!
Sound right this way:

Could you, please, not smoke?

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If you're putting 'please' in the middle, then you don't need the commas.

Could you please not smoke?
 

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Really????
I didn't know that.....Strange....
 

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May I ask you not TO smoke?

I believe TO is needed here, right?

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I think it is right, but I am not a teacher.
 

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Is there a reason why you're not simply saying "Please don't smoke/shout"?
 

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Because I'm not in a position to say that, I think. I can only ask nicely.
 

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"Can you please not shout?" sounds like an exasperated request to me. "Please don't shout" is polite/nice.
 

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Hi irinaofr,

"May I ask you not TO smoke?"
"I believe TO is needed here, right?"

Yes, I believe Matthew is correct. However, to me, in BrE this is not as polite as it may at first seem on the surface. It actually means that you are directly telling, or instructing, them not to smoke, but trying to make it sound polite by using "May I....". It would mainly be used by authority figures. It sounds rather old fashioned and most people now, even in authority, would probably use the forms recommended by Skrej and emsr2d2.
 

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I think it is also polite to say 'Would you mind not smoking?', but I am not a teacher.
 
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