Student or Learner
As I grew up, I saw people who had great riches of all types -- great jobs, wonderful relationships, and well-developed physiques. I had to know what caused their lives to be so different from mine and that of my friends.
(Unlimited Power; A.Robbins)
Would you be so kind as to tell me whether I have understood it correctly that he bundles up his friends' lives into one since they are presumably too similar to each other?
I would say that that's probably the thinking behind it but, much as I don't like to take issue with published authors, I would have used "those" to refer to the lives of me and my friends.
Edit: Ah, I've just recognised the author's name and realised it's one of those self-help "how to be successful" books. I wouldn't put Robbins in the same league as a "proper" author so I'm now not surprised by the poor use of English. A proofreader should have picked it up though.
Edit 2: I received a private message from the OP to clarify what I meant by a "proper author". I was merely trying to differentiate between certain types of writing. I would not expect to find usage such as this in a novel nor in certain kinds of non-fiction (factual historical, for example). Those books probably have high standards of proofreading and editing whereas, as I understand it, a lot of "self-help" books are written in the same way the writer speaks during those "motivational videos" I'm sure we've all seen clips of. I think quite of lot of them are self-published too so there might be no help from a proofreader or editor.
Last edited by emsr2d2; 31-Jan-2016 at 10:00.
Remember - if you don't use correct capitalisation, punctuation and spacing, anything you write will be incorrect.