Use dress in/dressed in (not with). The set of sentences from Google books show very clearly how to use dress correctly as a verb.
The respected members meant to say that the countable noun a dress refers to an item of women's clothing. It really doesn't matter about the gender identity of the person wearing the dress.
As you see from the examples, it is perfectly appropriate to use dress in/dressed in to talk about men's clothes.
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