Note my corrections above. It's important to start every sentence with a capital letter. Do not put a space after opening quotation marks and don't put a space before closing quotation marks.
With "refuse" we add "to + verb", because we "refuse to verb".
I refuse to speak to my mother.
Is he going to refuse to do his homework?
We refuse to be honest with young people.
How can we tackle the problem if we refuse to be honest with people?
Student or Learner