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The models and loops of Life
I find everyone has their own models to interact with the world. Some models are good, helpful, and some are bad, destructive, harmful. Many a person is not consciously aware of what happens to themselves, in themselves. This almost has nothing to do with the IQ or education of a person.
If you want to learn a person, you will have to observe their models. A model is very similar to the reaction of the laboratory dog conditioned by Ivan Pavlov's bell. When the bell is rung and the dog will salivate. Numerous conditioned models virtually shape the world of a person's. So this is a model of condition reflex in the subconscious mind of dogs, human beings, maybe other mammals as well.
Many people have the exact same time to log on forum. Many people would fall into the same trap again and again, fall love into the same type of persons. For example, if a man's ex is with the features of long blonde hair, blue eyes, and he inclines to be attracted to the person with similar physical features.
This is a model and a cycling loop as well. People just repeat their own built-in or conditioned loops every year, every month, every day, every moment.
On a forum I got to know a woman who is in her early 40s I guess. For years on the forum she has been cursing her father who deserted her mother and her when she was a little girl. She is notorious there, because she often uses foul language to attack many other people perennially. She has dozens of sock puppets. Once she gets banned, and she will instantly create a new one. People just feel disgusted of her. Some forumites who were abused by her gang up and verbally attack her. I was attacked and abused by her too because some opinions of mine are different from hers. Probably almost nobody there tries to understand what happen to and in this woman, except for me. She just keeps running one of her conditioned maze of loop around and around endlessly, angrily, and sadly.
I don't say all models and loops are bad, rather some are good. But some of the loops are destructive, toxic, vicious，and those should be spotted as easly as possible, and be ended.
Of course, I have my own loops, and luckily I broke some of vicious loops, and replace with some new loops for myself to adapt myself better in the world.
Some toxic people will use the models to manipulate other people. I had a couple of "friends" who had been manipulating me with my models. I spotted their intentions, behaviour, and made up my mind to change my models after painfully retrospect myself, though they don't realize or believe I have changed, I am able change myself.
It's said the character of person's decides their fate. I would rather say models and loops of a person's decide their fate.
The models and loops of Life
I find everyone has their own models to interact with the world. Some models are good, helpful, and some are bad, destructive, harmful. Many a person is not consciously aware of what happens to themselves, in themselves. This almost has nothing to do with the IQ or education of a person.
If you want to learn a person, you will have to observe their models. A model is very similar to the reaction of the laboratory dog conditioned by Ivan Pavlov's bell. When the bell is rung and the dog will salivate. Numerous conditioned models virtually shape the world of a person's. So this is a model of condition reflex in the subconscious mind of dogs, human beings, maybe other mammals as well.
Many people have the exact same time to log on forum. Many people would fall into the same trap again and again, fall love into the same type of persons. For example, if a man's ex is with the features of long blonde hair, blue eyes, and he inclines to be attracted to the person with similar physical features.
This is a model and a cycling loop as well. People just repeat their own built-in or conditioned loops every year, every month, every day, every moment.
On a forum I got to know a woman who is in her early 40s I guess. For years on the forum she has been cursing her father who deserted her mother and her when she was a little girl. She is notorious there, because she often uses foul language to attack many other people perennially. She has dozens of sock puppets. Once she gets banned, and she will instantly create a new one. People just feel disgusted of her. Some forumites who were abused by her gang up and verbally attack her. I was attacked and abused by her too because some opinions of mine are different from hers. Probably almost nobody there tries to understand what happen to and in this woman, except for me. She just keeps running one of her conditioned maze of loop around and around endlessly, angrily, and sadly.
I don't say all models and loops are bad, rather some are good. But some of the loops are destructive, toxic, vicious，and those should be spotted as easly as possible, and be ended.
Of course, I have my own loops, and luckily I broke some of vicious loops, and replace with some new loops for myself to adapt myself better in the world.
Some toxic people will use the models to manipulate other people. I had a couple of "friends" who had been manipulating me with my models. I spotted their intentions, behaviour, and made up my mind to change my models after painfully retrospect myself, though they don't realize or believe I have changed, I am able change myself.
It's said the character of person's decides their fate. I would rather say models and loops of a person's decide their fate.
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