Could someone kindly help me here: which sentence is correct gramatically and why:
If you don't mind me asking, what did you think of our new college head?
If you don't mind my asking, what did you think of our new college head
I have recently seen people using 'my' in such cases, but I normally would use 'me' - don't know why, though! It just seems right to me. :S Could you please include some other examples as well. Thanks.