I would be grateful if you could please correct any mistakes in this passage.
There is a classical story about a mother beleived in spanking
as a necessary part of discipline till she saw her five years old daughter hitting her small brother.
When she asked her why did she do that she answered with all innocent
"I just do what my mother does" Obviously, after this stuation , the mother never hit any child in her life.
Every single knows that there are lots disadvantages of spanking.
Using spanking is a very bad manner which causes adverse reactions and leaves deep psycological wounds.
For sure that leads into aggression, and when I say aggression I mean behave in thraetening & angry way.
Also, spanking causes fear, nightmares, low-self esteem which means the child doesn't feel he is liked or respected.
Actually, spanking leads the child to use the violence with those who are yonger and less power than him, in the same time makes him afraid of those who are older than him.
Recently, I tried to collect some alternative methods for spanking which proved its effectiveness in kids behavior reform.
You can use the punishment chair. it is appropriate way to punish your kids if they misbehave or did something bad instead of hitting them.
In my opinion, deprivation is a very usefull technique .when you prevent your kids of their toys or something they love for thier own good.
Ignoring the child is a ssuccessful method to make your child listen & do to what you want him to do.
befor all these steps , you supposed to put instructions & make previuos deal between you & your kids it is not allowed to penetrate the instructions.
THANK YOU FOR CORRECTION