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Hello, dear experts,
Could you, please, discriminate between the shades of meaning of the three sentences below:
1. I should be at work before 9.
2. I have to be at work before 9.
3. I must be at work before 9.
# 1 is the least urgent, there is a possibility that you won't be there.
# 2 the medium, You are expected to be at work before 9
# 3 the most urgent/important, there will be consequences if you are not there before 9.
2 and 3 indicate to me that there may be consequences if you are not there.
I am not a teacher.
"have to" and "must" are generally synonymous. They both mean you have an obligation to be at work before 9.
"should" has several meanings.
The most likely meaning of 1. is:
"I am supposed to be at work before 9" (But my boss will understand if I'm a bit late ...)
"My boss expects me to be at work before 9"
The second meaning of 'should' is:
"I expect to be at work before 9" (If the traffic isn't too heavy, and nothing else prevents me, I should make it by 9).
Another meaning is a moral obligation that you've placed upon yourself.
"I've been late a few times recently. I really should be at work before 9"
"I have a lot of work to catch up on. I should make sure I'm at work before 9"
The subtle differences in both English and any other language!
Thank you very much for all detailed explanations! You were of great help to me!