how to cope with rejection

[heidita]

What is the question?

 

[mary joe]

Re: How???

I mean, I know it is impossible to avoid rejection. But, what are the possible ways in avoiding it?

 

[Anglika]

Re: How???

You have stated a paradox: It is impossible to avoid something but what are the possible ways to avoid it.

Is this a question about vocabulary or a personal situation?

 

[mary joe]

Re: How???

Yes, thanks Anglika. It is a personal situation. I know someone who is bitter because he knows someone likes him. But, the girl suddenly stopped talking to him and is continuously snobbing him whenever they see each other in the office. Now, he doesn't know what to do. He wants to cope up by what he termed as "rejection".

 

[Anglika]

Re: How???

Ok - I'm moving this thread to Members General Discussion.

The best thing he can do is to forget the situation and only deal with the girl on a professional level when he has to. He would be well advised not to react to anything she says or does that is nothing to do with work.

 

[susiedqq]

Tell him he must have courage to go on. His heart with heal. The best way is to find another girl.

Time heals all broken hearts. :lol:

 

[heidita]

Anglika, there has been some kind of mix-up. I didn't post this thread.

saludos

 

[rewboss]

Anglika, there has been some kind of mix-up. I didn't post this thread.

By the looks of it, Anglika split this thread off from an existing thread.

susiedqq, I have to disagree with you. Believe me, about the last thing you want to hear in that situation is that time heals all wounds, especially if you're young and it's your first real taste of rejection.

mary joe, did I understand correctly? You friend knows this girl likes him, but the girl keeps ignoring him? Is she playing hard-to-get, or has he done something wrong, or does she really not like him?