Instead, I had to control myself and I had not to lose my temper.

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Are these sentences correct?

Instead, I had to control myself and I needed not to lose my temper.

Instead, I had to control myself and I had not to lose my temper.
 

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The second is wrong. The first is wordy and not natural. Try:

- I had to control myself and not lose my temper.
- I had to control myself, not lose my temper.
- I needed to control myself and hold my temper.
- I had to control myself and keep my temper.
 

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Are the following implied in your sentences?

I had to control myself and (I had to) not lose my temper.

I need to control myself and (I need to) not lose my temper.
 

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No. It's all one thought. You could also say:

I had to control myself by restraining my temper.

(Nothing is implied.)
 

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I am still confused.
Let me just use one verb only as the follow, then how they would be like?

I had to not lose my temper.

I needed to not lose my temper.
 

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I am still confused.
Let me just use one verb only as the follow, then how they would be like?

I had to not lose my temper.

I needed to not lose my temper.

Both are grammatical and mean the same thing. Add these to your quiver:

- I had/needed to keep/hold/control my temper.
 

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Are the following implied in your sentences?

I had to control myself and (I had to) not lose my temper.

I need to control myself and (I need to) not lose my temper.
Yes, they are implied, if you mean what I think you do.
 
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