Love or harmony?!!

[Devil's tear]

love or harmony
Hi there. I'd like to know which one is more important to you
in your personal opinion. We live this life for a lot of targets, dreams,
social and psychological responsibilities. And we hardly try to achieve them. Some of us can,
sometimes we achieve some of them and sometime our luck becomes bad.
I'd like to know if you loved someone, perfect, handsome/beautiful, clever,
good and kind. But he/she is not agreeable with you. He/she completely
thinks differently. Will you keep your relationship with him/her? Or maybe you
will say no I can't break up. Love is the most important thing in this life.
What do you think? ​

 

[Horsa]

Re: love or harmony?!!

If I loved such a person and they loved me, I would stay with them. In my opinion having different views on things helps to keep a relationship fresh. Having the same views can be boring.

 

[Devil's tear]

Re: love or harmony?!!

If I loved such a person and they loved me, I would stay with them. In my opinion having different views on things helps to keep a relationship fresh. Having the same views can be boring.

Thank you for your interacting Horsa.
How about if the varying of your personality was completelly different?:-?
It's a bit hard, isn't?​

 

[blouen]

Re: love or harmony?!!

A friend told me, magnet, that he is always attracted to someone with an opposite polarity. And I think he's got a point. Like what Horsa said, it's going to be a boring relationship if both of you think completely alike. Having different opinions is very challenging. To try to incorporate both ideas and make both to agree on one thing is so exciting, sometimes fussy. It adds fun and spice to the relationship.

 

[heidita]

Re: love or harmony?!!

. It adds fun and spice to the relationship.

Hi Blouen, I couldn't agree more. A relationship is very boring if you agree on everything. Life is probably easier if you actually do, but it would be very dull.

I prefer a funny, entertaining, argumentative person always to a harmonic , lovely and kind one. Life is long (hopefully) and I would probably be bored to death.

 

[Devil's tear]

Thanks bro and sis for your reply. I totally disagree with you. If he was completely different I'll be unable to accept his actings and a way of his thinking. But if he disagree with some things which I have in my nature but he agree with me in other things, I can pass it. Because there are no persons are similar to each other completely.
Thanks again.​

 

[blouen]

Devil's tear,
I guess someone who is completely, literally completely, different from you is an imaginary being. All of us have something in common.

 

[rosy dove]

in fact me and my close friend have many common things but also we have many and many different opinions
and it make our relationship more interisting
and i will never leave her
she is my best thing in my life

 

[Devil's tear]

In fact, me and my closed friend have many common things but also, we have many and many different opinions. And it makes our relationship more interisting I will never leave her. she is my best thing in my life.

I hope you all best with her.And I hope to find him as well.​

 

[heidita]

she is my best thing in my life

Just to point out that women are not things!

saludos

 

[Devil's tear]

hahaaa Don't feel sad. He translated his text from Arabic into English. Because that he used the word ''thing'' which means a beautiful meaning in his language. He means: she is my best jewel and pearl in my life.;-)​

 

[heidita]

He means: she is my best jewel and pearl in my life.;-)​

Oh, well, I prefer being a jewel and a pearl definitely to being a "thing" in anybody's life!!:lol: