Since then, my mother and I have had to rely on each other.

[Tan Elaine]

Although our family was not wealthy, we lived comfortable and happy lives. However, these good times did not last as my father passed away unexpectedly from a viral infection. This change hit us badly as we lost our important pillar of support. We were distraught and devastated beyond words. Since then, my mother and I have had to rely on each other.

The above is from a Buddhist magazine.

Should it be 'have' instead of 'have had'?

Thanks.

 

[andrewg927]

No. "Have had" is better with "since".

 

[tedmc]

No. "Have had" is better with "since".

Is "have had" better or the only correct tense with "since"?

 

[andrewg927]

I would say that is the only tense that is correct. With "since", it is typical to use the present perfect.